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BDSM

November, 2018




BDSM is an acronym for Bondage Domination Sadism and Masochism. It is the catch phrase for erotic practices used for appeasement as part of foreplay. It involves various enactment like bondage, discipline, pain, dominance, submission and many more interpersonal dynamics that lead to kinky sex. BDSM may differ for people depending upon their personal choice of sexual pleasure.

What does Bondage, Domination, Sadism & Masochism mean?

Bondage.It is the act of tying a partner using ropes during intercourse. Not just the ropes, the dominant partner can control the counterpart using handcuffs, specialty hooks, velcro, clasps or the belts.

Domination.Playing the dominant one in foreplay. If the male takes the charge, the word for him is the dom and if the female takes up the charge, domme is the word. Ultimately, the dominant one controls the partner and the course of events. All regulations of BDSM are set by the dominant partner.

Sadism.Events that the dominant partner opts to gratify pleasure during foreplay by imposing pain to submissive.

Masochism.It refers to the enjoyment of physical or emotional pain and humiliation during intercourse.

Different Role-plays in BDSM

Under BDSM, the major roles are that of dominant and submissive. They can play their parts in different ways: -

Talking about Dominant

As in the above lines, the person taking control of the events during foreplay and intercourse is dominant. Interestingly there's a set of terms that follow dominance.

The dominant can use any way of gratification to enhance pleasure. They have the authority to include bondage (using tying or restricting materials) or sadism (inflicting pain) on submissive to entice pleasure.

Talking about Submissive

The partner playing submissive has to follow all the rules set by the dominant partner. The sub is not allowed to utter “No” to the orders of the dominant.

There a set of role plays that submissive performs: -

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